2009 New "Tree" Resolutions

Dark brown rough skin covers the delicate matters of the heart. Green fills its life, like the heart flows the body with blood. Orange, brown, and yellow signs of aging of another year like gray hairs to a senior citizen. Branches reaching out towards the heavens and yet holds the earth within its limbs. How deep the roots grow tapping into all the earth has to offer. No matter what the world has to offer it; it stands till its dying end. Whether it be rain, fire, or wind it adapts and overcomes by sometimes being strong or compromising but always standing firm.

Trees are beautiful during the spring and fall. During the spring it offers the freshness and newness of green leaves, which provide shelter for birds and little animals. Through out the fall the leaves change coloring the earth with splendor of golden age. Tall trees are rooted firmly into the ground. Winds blow allowing the trees to make music for our hearts.

Many branches are all supported by one trunk of a large tree, which bears much fruit of its labor. The trunk is the heart and the center of its life. Have you ever compared a tree to a human? In a tree there is "blood" or nourishment, which flows from the roots just as the blood circulates through the body. The trunk of the tree is the heart of a human. The many branches represent the many thoughts, which are produced. Some branches are broken as many thoughts are broken. The heart determines our views upon life and the views are our thoughts, which are rooted from the heart. What thoughts could be produced from the heart? "I choose not to believe in God." "I prayed and I am not what God made me to be". "I can't do anything right".

How one thinks must consider their thoughts carefully. Is one comparing themselves to others? Is the one that is thinking comparing themselves to God's word? When one compares themselves to others there is no truth in the heart of comparison. For God's word is truth. Consider: Luke 8:17 For there is nothing hidden that will not be disclosed, and nothing concealed that will not be known or brought out into the open. 18 Therefore consider carefully how you listen. Whoever has will be given more; whoever does not have, even what he thinks he has will be taken from him." Luke 21:34 "Be careful, or your hearts will be weighed down with dissipation, drunkenness and the anxieties of life, and that day will close on you unexpectedly like a trap.

1 Corinthians 1:25 for the foolishness of God is wiser than man's wisdom, and the weakness of God is stronger than man's strength. 26 Brothers, think of what you were when you were called. Not many of you were wise by human standards; not many were influential; not many were of noble birth. 27 But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong. What is this writer trying to convey to us? The only way I can explain it is by a poem I wrote: I remember where there were three saplings, which made resolutions of what they would be once they became a tall tree.

The first sapling reached as far as it could and prayed, " I want to be able to hold the greatest treasure upon the earth" and that's what I want to be.

The second sapling reached as far as it could and prayed, " I want to be a strong vessel to explore the waters while carrying an important King."

The third sapling reached as far as it could and prayed, " I want to be important, strong, and the tallest tree so all upon the world will know what I bring."

Days, months, and years came as it brought about its storms and sunny days, which weathered the trees in growing strong and tall. The moment came when three log men came into the forest bearing sharp saws and axes to make these three trees fall. The first log man said to the first tree, "your perfect", and cut the first tree while he said, " You are beautiful and I'll make you into a chest."

The second log man said to the second tree, "your perfect", and cut the second tree while he said, "You will be my vessel and will look the best."

The third log man said to the proud third tree, "you will do," and cut the third tree while he said no words to comfort the third tree. Days went by and the three log men went to work, as they all should be.

The first tree was made into a feed chest to nourish the animals in the stable. The second tree was made into a simple fishing vessel for that is all it was able.

The third tree was brought to the lumberyard and left to lie on the ground. Years past for these three trees and soon they forgot their resolutions which were so profound.

Stars shone one silent night while a young woman gave birth and her husband took the chest in the stable and filled it with hay and laid the newborn in the chest. Then the first tree said, "I was sadden at first but as time went on I forgot my purpose and now I'm holding the greatest treasure in the world and He is the best" Years went by and one day in the middle of the sea, a tiny vessel carrying thirteen men came upon a storm, which made the twelve fearful. The twelve men woke the sleeping man. He arose and said "Peace be still". The storm was silent and the third tree said, I am carrying the King of heaven and earth and thus I will be cheerful.

Four years passed and one Friday morning the third tree was awakened while her beams were crossed and drugged through the road. A man was nailed to her limbs and lifted high for the entire world to see. The earth shook and then third tree knew what glory that day was bestowed.

God answered the three prayers and blessed the three trees more than they could even envision. God provides and delivers with great precision. Remember, as the New Year approaches and we make resolutions. Think about what you have. Are you trying to compare yourself with others? Are you wanting more than what you have? Pray to God and allow God to make the changes in you. Sometimes our resolutions hinder us because when we do not carry them out then we are angry or upset because we failed by not carrying out our resolutions. Sometimes what we want takes time to become reality. Sometimes what we think is best for us God develops something even better in us. Therefore we have to be patient.

What is more, I consider everything a loss compared to the surpassing greatness of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them rubbish that I may gain Christ and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith in Christ--the righteousness that comes from God and is by faith. I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the fellowship of sharing in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, and so, somehow, to attain to the resurrection from the dead. Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus. All of us who are mature should take such a view of things. And if on some point you think differently, that too God will make clear to you. (Philippians 3:8-15)

Paul is a remarkable man. He set an example for us on how we can change and make the impossible become possible. He made an extraordinary change and made a great resolution by staying focused on Christ and not upon himself. The process of personal change and the making of new resolutions often has the focus on us trying to do the change instead of allowing Christ in making the change. Take a time, reflect in the past, and notice all the failures occurred when we tried to fix it ourselves. When we took the change upon ourselves to change, we failed.

Many of us look at Peter walking on the water as a failure because he lost focus upon what happened. He wasn't a failure! He was a success. Why? His faith made him a success because he took the first step of faith and began to walk upon the water! How many of us have exercised our faith?

How can we make this New Year's Resolution work? The process of change will have you to face the issues and pain you muster in your life. Then change your perception on changing and be involved. Notice how Paul made the change.

1. Make a resolution that is not based upon the past but the future. Count everything as a loss in your past. Get over your past. What is done is done. Get over the ill feelings of what has occurred. Don't harbor resentment. Learn to forgive those that have inflicted hurt and pain. Paul says," I consider everything a loss compared to the surpassing greatness of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things." (v.8)

2. Make your resolution not based solely on yourself. It is okay to make resolutions about you. However, making a resolution self centered and without faith based upon I and not including Christ is a self centered resolution. Paul says not having it of my own but it is through faith in Christ that allows us to change. God gives us the change as long as we have it by faith. Paul says, "and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith in Christ--the righteousness that comes from God and is by faith. (v.9)

3. Make your resolution shared! Christ already knows what you have been through. Read what He has gone through. Share in the moments of His sufferings. When we come to Christ and turn our life over to Him, He makes things happen. It is a life changing process. It's a new life. A new light which brings you out of past failures into success of the future. Paul says, "I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the fellowship of sharing in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, and so, somehow, to attain to the resurrection from the dead." (v10-11)

Paul illustrated three things:

A. He wanted to know Christ and that Christ's life gives power for daily living.

B. Paul knows when we change there is pain. It is the sharing of sufferings when we change our hearts.

C. Paul speaks about having Christ's will and not ours when he speaks about the resurrection.

When we share our resolution through Christ we become a different person by daily sacrificing our wills.

4. Make your resolution focused. Paul stayed focused on Christ and realized that he needed to forget the past and move toward what was ahead. The goal of a resolution is not to focus on what focusing on the past, can't do, but what can be done by realizing the potential of the prize that awaits us. Paul says, "Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus. (v.12-14) Yesterday's failures emerge larger in our minds. We allow yesterday's failures to dictate tomorrow's results. Just because we failed yesterday doesn't mean we'll fail today. The decisions I make today are what count.

5. Make your resolution a mature one. Prayer is a very important factor. Maturity realizes prayer has to be made first then the resolution can be made. Thru prayer, God will make it clear in your life on how to change and make your resolution happen. Paul says, "All of us who are mature should take such a view of things. And if on some point you think differently, that too God will make clear to you. (v.15)

This New Year could be a time for change. If you are that little sapling and wanting to branch into something wonderful, just remember allow God to mold you and stay focused on Him. He will lead you and make you better than what you can dream possible. If you truly think about it…… He already has…….. He has called us to be a child of His…… .Are you listening? …… You can be a child of God…. .What greater gift of change you can redeem

The Light

Oh blinded eyes, can you not see the world around you that was made for you? Tender hearted children take a glimpse of the future to come. One laugh brings the warmth of souls together in the moment of happiness like a match ignites a bundle of logs in your fireplace. A flash appears before your eyes. Can you see the lightning that strikes in our lives? One moment or one glimpse is all it takes to shine the light. The flash shines bright before our last dying breath. The world spins around us like a merry-go-round. We stay on and on…never getting off the never-ending circle of our lives. If we don’t take a moment to look into and cherish the beauty that is there, all we will see is the blur and no memory of the outside of our world. We will miss out on memories.

It is amazing how God works in our lives. It's not about what we have in this world. The material things we have are like magic which creates illusions of happiness. We try to take a hold of what makes us feel fulfilled, but in the end, the reality is we grow weak, unhappy, and unsatisfied with what there is in our lives. We grow weary because our lives are not filled with the substance, but with illusions.

Why do we dream and then fear the results? Our dreams become shattered like a hourglass. Why do we fear what we do not know? Is it because we are afraid to face ourselves? Are we afraid of the change that might occur? When we settle down in our nesting beds and become cozy like a winter day, we refuse to come out of the warmth - our comfort zone. Why do we want to hide our faces in the covers and not face another new day? Are we afraid of failure or afraid we might succeed? The day draws near like curtains at then end of a production theater play. The final ovation applause echoes into the night.

Fear grips when it becomes dark. What are we afraid of? Children fear the dark – you can see it on their faces. There is nothing to fear but fear itself. So why are they afraid? They are afraid of the unknown. Why can't we face the future? Why do we run from truth when it confronts us? Why do we run from the light when it shines upon us as if we were doing something wrong or mysterious? Why do we have problems looking at ourselves in the mirror? Why do we bow our heads when we are paid a compliment? What is the perception we perceive of ourselves and yet when a statement is made it roars like thunder shaking every moment within us, awakening the fears within. Do we run do and hide? Why can't we try to be like children again and dare to be bold?

A child that is raised correctly in a brilliant home full of love and splendor is not afraid of anything. Yet, put him in the darkness and he cringes like a snake being coiled to protect itself. Darkness makes the strong weak. Yet, the light makes us stronger and bolder. Think about a plant. It draws to the light. The plant will actually draw itself to the source of light and will grow in the direction of the light. Yet, when in darkness, it dies. We say we like the light but when confronted with the light, we run. What is the light? Is it a truth or a reality that you cannot see? Is it a dream you had of which became a reality? Maybe you are overlooking a reality such as a companion that can make your dreams come true.

The light can do many things. What can the light do?

1. It shows us the way. Then Jesus again spoke to them, saying, ""I am the Light of the world; he who follows Me will not walk in the darkness, but will have the Light of life.'' John 8:12 After hearing the king, they went their way; and the star, which they had seen in the east, went on before them until it came and stood over the place where the Child was. When they saw the star, they rejoiced exceedingly with great joy. After coming into the house they saw the Child with Mary His mother; and they fell to the ground and worshiped Him. Then, opening their treasures, they presented to Him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh. Matthew 2:9-11

2. It uncovers the darkness "For nothing is hidden, except to be revealed; nor has anything been secret, but that it would come to light. Mark 4:22 The Light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not comprehend it. John 1:5 Therefore do not go on passing judgment before the time, but wait until the Lord comes who will both bring to light the things hidden in the darkness and disclose the motives of men's hearts; and then each man's praise will come to him from God. 1 Corinthians 4:5

In the same region there were some shepherds staying out in the fields and keeping watch over their flock by night. And an angel of the Lord suddenly stood before them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them; and they were terribly frightened. But the angel said to them, "" Do not be afraid; for behold, I bring you good news of great joy which will be for all the people; for today in the city of David there has been born for you a Savior, who is Christ the Lord."" This will be a sign for you: you will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger. ''And suddenly there appeared with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God and saying,"" Glory to God in the highest, And on earth peace among men with whom He is pleased.'' When the angels had gone away from them into heaven, the shepherds began saying to one another, ""Let us go straight to Bethlehem then, and see this thing that has happened which the Lord has made known to us.'' Luke 2:8-15

What happens when one turns out the kitchen light? It becomes dark and sometimes hard to find our way. When we struggle in our every day life it is hard to find our way to the light. "in whose case the god of this world has blinded the minds of the unbelieving so that they might not see the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God."2 Corinthians 4:4 Everyone must realize the light is our source of guidance. It is the lighthouse that will guide us to the Father.

When others help......... that is a part of the light.... When we receive a compliment, which is part of the light. Be warmed and attracted to it. What if the wise men didn't follow the light? What if the shepherds where afraid of what appeared to them in the night? Sometimes we become afraid because we do not know the future.

Know this our future is secure in Christ! As long as one can walk in the light as HE is in the light 1 John 1:7 then we will have continued fellowship with Him and there will be nothing to neither be afraid nor worry about. If you shun the light around you and shut off the world to be in darkness, you will feel the coldness so, be attracted to the light. Notice the children are fascinated by the light. Shouldn't you? Follow the star Jesus Christ and let these holidays brighten your future. Thanks be to God for providing us a light to shine bright in our life. Don't hide it and don't run from it! Merry Christmas and pray to God for His Salvation of light which will never go out!

Give a gift and be free.

The holidays are here and time constraints begin ticking like a time bomb. Pressures of life can be like a vice squeezing and holding you into place, even though you choose your course in life. Wherever you may go in life, you must remember the Spirit of God that has called you to freedom. Sometimes someone has allowed friends, jobs, or family to quench the freedom and it kills the life within. Soon, you could find yourself burned out and imprisoned to the earthly things of which you have been called to freedom.

Ever experienced or seen a leaky roof on the inside? A small drip begins and is followed by another drip. Pretty soon it becomes a steady drip. You can put a bucket underneath to catch the drips. Pretty soon if you don’t deal with the roof you have a full bucket. If you don’t empty the bucket it overflows. A small tip will cause a splash.

Sound similar to something else? It should. It could be your life. It could be someone you know. Getting up late in the morning and then spilling coffee on your favorite article of clothing. Someone cuts you off while driving. See the small drips like rain and your catching all the drips. How well is your roof? Prison or jail is not fun. When I was working in the Criminal Investigations Unit for the United States Army, I was able to go to a prison and sit in a pod and watch the inmates. I often pondered what they did in life to put them in this predicament. There were some in prison for being a murderer, some were dealing drugs, some were being a drug addict and in all these cases a wrong or an injustice was made upon a victim. Just being physically imprisoned is nothing into comparison to being emotionally imprisoned.

Many relationships are destroyed by the unwillingness to forgive. Some people want to be able to forgive others or even ones’ own faults and mistakes made in life. Some want to hang on to the suffering and never see closure, in which causes them to be a victim to themselves. Some want to destroy other people’s lives for mistakes which were made to them. Hanging on to a wrong is like keeping a slow stewing volcano within ones soul. The next wrong being done can cause an extreme explosion of anger and violence. Don’t believe me? Remember Columbine High School shooting? What about a spouse that holds on to a suffered wrong and then lashes out in anger because something else just lit the fire. Holding on to suffering from wrong doings is painful and it keeps one stuck in the tar pit. Being stuck in a tar pit like a dinosaur. It will only devour one and soon makes one a living fossil. How can one be able to let go and let God? It is all in perception and attitude of how to encounter the situations one may face. The reality is recognizing that God is in control and that the power to choose to forgive comes from the strength of God.

Colossians 3:12 Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 13 Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14 And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. 15 Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.

If I had a bucket full of rocks is it full? Some have answered yes. If I had a bucket full of water is it full? Some have answered yes. However, if I had a bucket full of rocks it isn’t full. I can still put gravel in, along with sand and water. Then the bucket becomes full with substance. If I had the bucket of water then it is full and if I was to add other things to it, the water would over flow. This was the meaning behind Paul’s message in Colossians. One must put on compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Notice that Love is the last mentioned and it could be that Love is the hardest to obtain over compassion or being gentle. Love covers a multitude of things. 1 Peter 4:8 Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.When one has love it is easier to choose to forgive than to hold anger within and never to forgive.

Take a big rock and drop it into the bucket of water. Notice how it splashes everywhere. That is anger without forgiveness. Take gravel and pour it into the bucket of rocks. Notice how the gravel blends and melds with the rocks? That is compassion working with gentleness and allowing humility to offer forgiveness when sand and water are added in and together it binds it in love. What is forgiveness? Forgiveness is a way of releasing the pain from the actions of others. From the release one ceases to be a victim and it releases the judgment against the offender. Forgiveness is not just for the offender but mainly designed for the forgiver. Forgiveness is a release from the pain and wrong doing that one has suffered. It is a gift and comfort of peace that mends relationships. What do I mean? Joseph suffered wrongdoing by the hands of his brothers. Genesis 50:17 `This is what you are to say to Joseph: I ask you to forgive your brothers the sins and the wrongs they committed in treating you so badly.' Now please forgive the sins of the servants of the God of your father." When their message came to him, Joseph wept. Forgiveness started from God. Man sinned from the beginning. God sent His Son down for one to be able to be forgiven of one’s sin. Matthew 6:15 But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins. It is because of HIM all are forgiven. Be free today and forgive others and one will begin to see the burden will be up lifted.

Forgiveness is as if nothing has happened and you work together in rebuilding the relationship. Depression is caused by many things and not forgiving and harboring bitterness is one of them. Jesus could have harbored ill feelings to those who wanted to kill Him but instead, He asked God to forgive them. Life is better when you let go of the wrong which has been done to you. Open you heart and forgive and you can see the burden lifted. God forgave us and that burden of wrong has been lifted. Someday He is coming back to take us home. Don't let an unforgiving or spiteful attitude bind you to the cross. Let go and let GOD uplift your spirit. It's all about Him. Yes, we all make mistakes and yet we are all forgiven.

Therefore, if you’re feeling depressed and under pressure. You’re not quite sure what is wrong, but something is weighing you down. Give a gift of life to yourself and empty out your bucket. Thanks to the Father for the gift of Grace. Tis the Season!

What matters is "Ewe"

As a man walked down to the beach, he noticed the beach was covered with starfish that had washed ashore, thousands of them up and down the beach. There on the beach was a woman picking up one starfish at a time and flinging it back into the sea. The man went up to her and said, "What are you doing? There’s thousands of starfish here. You can’t begin to make a dent in them. Your little effort isn’t going to matter at all." The woman picking up yet another starfish and flinging it into the sea said, "It matters to this one."

One cannot help everyone, however one can help one person at a time. Jesus didn’t heal everyone at once but only healed one at a time. Someone once asked Mother Teresa what she does when she is overwhelmed with the vast needs of the poor in Calcutta. She said she goes out and finds one person that needs the love of God and pours her life into that one person.

Sheep are interesting animals. The bible speaks of them metaphorically to relate to human beings. What are sheep? A female sheep is an ewe and a male sheep is a ram. Just like human babies, when lambs are born, they need some special attention to make sure they live happy and healthy lives. When a lamb is born, it is attached to its mother by an umbilical cord. The shepherd cuts the cord close to the lamb's belly, then dips the part still attached to the lamb in iodine so it will not become infected. Eventually, the cord will dry up and drop off.

Sometimes when a lamb is born, the mother dies, or sometimes she is unable or unwilling to take care of her baby. The shepherd tries to find another ewe that has just had a baby of her own to "adopt" the lamb and accept it as her own. Or, sometimes shepherds keep goats to serve as "nannies" to the lambs. If the shepherd can't find another ewe or goat to care for the lamb, then the lamb must be hand fed with a bottle.

A research scientist after many tests using photographs has determined that not only can sheep recognize up to fifty faces but they can also determine the gender by sight alone. However, sheep can recognize the shepherd by sight and by the shepherd's voice.

John 10:3 The watchman opens the gate for him, and the sheep listen to his voice. He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out. 4 When he has brought out all his own, he goes on ahead of them, and his sheep follow him because they know his voice. 5 But they will never follow a stranger; in fact, they will run away from him because they do not recognize a stranger's voice."

A shepherd might be able to tend to the entire flock, but when it comes to special needs it can only do one lamb or sheep at a time. However, sheep have a unique relationship with the shepherd. The shepherd knows their sheep and the sheep know their shepherd.

Psalms 23:1 The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want. 2 He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, 3 he restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake. 4 Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. 5 You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.6 Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.

Jesus is our shepherd. Jesus makes a difference. He can make a difference in a person’s life. He is that tender loving shepherd that can tend to your wounds if you let him. Jesus didn't heal multitudes all at once but he healed people one at a time. Notice the majority of miracles He performed and one will noticed He touched them not only on an emotional level but also with a physical touch.

Each of us can make a difference in someone’s life. If one can lay aside the burdens of the past that kills the future of new relationships with others, then one can care for another person. One has too set aside prejudices, past feelings of failed relationships, assumptions hurt emotions and ill feelings towards another and then one can begin to help. The key is getting rid of self and getting rid of the emotional baggage before moving onto the next relationship. We’ve been taught all our lives to be independent, indispensable, and stubborn and supper efficient. An inner voice says, "Prove it to them! You can do it. You don't need anybody's help. You can do it all by yourself." One can never deal with a problem until one can recognize that the problem exists. Sometimes one can feel overwhelmed with issues that sometimes one doesn't know where to begin.

Like the woman at the beach took one starfish at a time and she started to make a difference at the beach. Like Mother Teresa took one person and made a difference in their life at Calcutta. One can make a difference in another person's life. It takes one step at a time and soon like a pebble thrown into the pond the ripple effects will soon spread out.

Sometimes sheep can be helpless and they need the guidance from the shepherd. Sheep also flock together to protect themselves and provide comfort to each other. When one begins to recognize there is a need to help others then one finally has rid their selfishness of self and thus has started producing spiritual growth within one‘s own life. When one moves from being a sheep into a shepherd then one begins to understand the responsibilities and cares of making a difference in someone's life.

From spiritual growth one is able to reach out to others and make a difference. One can go from being a sheep and turn into being a shepherd. Why not make a difference and become a shepherd and help make a difference in someone‘s life. One can complain how the world might be in their eyes, but why not change the world around them and making a difference in someone's life. Why not “pay it forward”? Allow Christ to be your Shepherd by leading you in green pastures of peace and in turn you can make a difference in someone’s life today. It is because of Him that he has already made a difference for “EWE”(you) by sacrificing His life so that you can live.

The Ulitamate Super Hero!

When there was trouble, Peter Parker acted as Spiderman. When there was no trouble, the Daily Bugle kept Peter employed as a photographer. A burglar killed Peter’s Uncle Ben, and Peter was left to help his Aunt May. As Spiderman, Peter apprehends the murderer of his beloved uncle. Still, Peter is plagued with guilt, thinking that if he had stopped the burglar when he first saw him, his Uncle Ben would still be alive. During this time of turmoil, Peter remembers something his Uncle Ben once told him. "With great powers, come great responsibilities". Peter took these words to heart and decided to use his extraordinary powers for doing good for others, and not for selfish reasons. Spiderman had four super-powers, Spider-Strength, Spider-Speed, Spider-Grip, and Spider-Sense.

1. Spider-Strength--The radioactive spider that bit Peter transferred its characteristics into his DNA. Among these traits was the proportionate strength of a common house spider. His incredible physical power gives him great endurance. Coupled with Peter's determination, this makes him virtually unstoppable.

2. Spider-Speed--Peter inherited the arachnid's swift speed. He can move and react several times faster than an ordinary human.

3. Spider-Grip--The most helpful ability is the spider's natural ability to walk on walls and ceilings. Spiderman can attach himself to almost anything, moving or nonmoving.

4. Spider-Sense--The sensation felt from this power helps him to focus-in on the source of danger. It acts like radar, guiding him if he's is struck blind, or plunged into darkness. This sense also warns him of dangers such as concealed weapons and disguised enemies.

The greatest advantage of the spider-sense is that it is used in conjunction with his other abilities. Many readers began to relate to Peter Parker and his realistic, teenage problems like peer pressure. Many desired to be a super-hero like Spiderman, able to cling to walls, sneak around, and have a sixth sense for sensing trouble.

I enjoy Spiderman and other superhero movies. However, in 1 Sam 17: 47 “All those gathered here will know that it is not by sword or spear that the LORD saves; for the battle is the Lord's, and he will give all of you into our hands.” 48 As the Philistine moved closer to attack him, David ran quickly toward the battle line to meet him. 49 Reaching into his bag and taking out a stone, he slung it and struck the Philistine on the forehead. The stone sank into his forehead, and he fell facedown on the ground.50 So David triumphed over the Philistine with a sling and a stone; without a sword in his hand he struck down the Philistine and killed him.51 David ran and stood over him. He took hold of the Philistine's sword and drew it from the scabbard. After he killed him, he cut off his head with the sword. When the Philistines saw that their hero was dead, they turned and ran.

Amazing! A giant that the Philistines called their hero was dead. He had strength! He had power! Yet he was defeated by one small problem and it cost him his life. Sometimes the heros one puts into their life can be defeated. Whether it is a basketball star, football star, relative, or baseball star, any of these will fail at some point.

David was a hero to Israel. He had no super-powers like Spiderman. However, like Spiderman has his equipment to aid him in his job. David had abilities that aided him in becoming a hero.

1. Faith--Faith gives the ability to do anything. Having faith in God one can be like those mentioned in the following verse: 1 Sam 17:37 “’The LORD who delivered me from the paw of the lion and the paw of the bear will deliver me from the hand of this Philistine.’ Saul said to David, ‘Go, and the LORD be with you.’”

2. Speed--David had to be quick in his reactions because he was a shepherd. He had to defend his sheep. However, in his quickness, he took the time to listen to God. 1 Sam 17:48 “As the Philistine moved closer to attack him, David ran quickly toward the battle line to meet him.49 Reaching into his bag and taking out a stone, he slung it and struck the Philistine on the forehead. The stone sank into his forehead, and he fell facedown on the ground.”

3. Sling & Stones--David had the proper equipment to protect himself and his flock. God also equips one with tools to defend oneself. 1 Sam 17:40 “Then he took his staff in his hand, chose five smooth stones from the stream, put them in the pouch of his shepherd's bag and, with his sling in his hand, approached the Philistine.”

4. Courage--David used his faith, speed, and his talents; but it was his faith that best equipped him to do the impossible. 1 Sam 17:45 “David said to the Philistine, ‘You come against me with sword and spear and javelin, but I come against you in the name of the LORD Almighty, the God of the armies of Israel, whom you have defied.’” One can become a hero. Yes, even you can be a hero.

Have faith, hope, and love for others but most of all, have God first in your life. Help others in their time of need and others will begin to see you as their hero. I know it's a play on words but I think you get the idea. There is only one Hero. Jesus Christ! He came back from the dead so that all can have eternal life.

Have faith in Him that He can carry your burdens. Have courage knowing that He can give you the power to overcome the issues and problems that you face in life. Are you down and out? Don't see a future? Are you hurting? 1 Sam 17: 47 “All those gathered here will know that it is not by sword or spear that the LORD saves; for the battle is the Lord's, and he will give all of you into our hands." The battles in your life are nothing compared to the power that God can give to you; He delivers those problems for you to conquer in your life. Just have faith and let Christ become a hero in your life. It's because of Him. His death, and resurrection that all can have eternal life. Christ is the True and ONLY HERO!

STRESS! UGGGG! How to handle it using the 5 P's.

For those who are into numbers:
25 percent of workers have taken a day off from work to cope with stress.
54 percent of Americans are concerned about the level of stress in their everyday lives.
62 percent of Americans say work has a significant impact on stress levels.
66 percent of Americans say they are likely to seek help for stress.
73 percent of Americans name money as the number one factor that affects their stress level.
Increasing numbers of children, teenagers and college students report feeling under stress. Highly stressed teenagers are twice as likely to smoke, drink, get drunk and use illegal drugs. Stress contributes to such life-threatening problems as heart attack, stroke, depression and infection, as well as to chronic aches and pains
Sources: American Psychological Association 2004 survey, American Institute of Stress, National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse

Wow! This was 4 years ago. Can you imagine what it is today? Now more than ever, due to the concerns of the economy, one can only imagine the percentage of Americans which are under stress. Many questions have been raised in regards to reducing stress. How do we get to this stress level stage?

First, we have to look at long term. This is getting harder in a fast paced and short term culture here in America. Too many want the here and now and not patient enough for the long term goal.

Second, God has to be ranked first in our life. I don’t mean you believe in God. You have to have a relationship with Him. Finally, we have to have a goal and an objective or a vision in our lives. If there are no goals or a vision then things go down the drain.

Don’t believe me? Read the news lately? Seen the big car makers? Ford, GM Chrysler going in their company owned jets to Congress? They all came to Congress to plea for help. Senator Obama was "surprised" executives didn't have a better vision when the Big Three came before Congress last week. You have to live by example. If you are struggling on income then you don’t take a jet to cause more debt. You must live within your means. No wonder these companies are failing. There is no clear cut direction. No vision. No plans. They seem to live in the here and now in a complacent world. Things must change. In order for things to change there has to be a rough period in order to come out better.

I love this story. 1 Samuel 14:6 Jonathan said to his young armor-bearer, "Come, let's go over to the outpost of those uncircumcised fellows. Perhaps the LORD will act in our behalf. Nothing can hinder the LORD from saving, whether by many or by few." 7 "Do all that you have in mind," his armor-bearer said. "Go ahead; I am with you heart and soul." 8 Jonathan said, "Come, then; we will cross over toward the men and let them see us. 9 If they say to us, 'Wait there until we come to you,' we will stay where we are and not go up to them. 10 But if they say, 'Come up to us,' we will climb up, because that will be our sign that the LORD has given them into our hands."
Ok. You are asking how this fits into stress. Here is how to lessen stress:

First read 1 Samuel 14, too get the bigger picture.

Second, Jonathan already had a plan. He had a vision. He had a support person. He gave it to God. He trusted in God for deliverance.

Have a plan and a direction in a long term you would like to see happen in five years for your family. For your life.

Share it with a support person. They can hold you accountable. Help when you need help.
Do what you plan on doing but always look for signs that God has opened the door for the direction to take.

Build a relationship with God. Praise and thank Him. Seek wisdom from Him first. Thank Him, afterwards. Praise Him during troubled times.

Third, read these passages:
a. If the LORD delights in a man's way, he makes his steps firm; Psalms 37:23 (NAS)
1. Notice: IF…. The Lord delights. Your plan has to be in the direction of a God spirit filled
heart.
2. IF your plans are spirit filled and with the right intentions God will make sure your plans are firm.

b. In his heart a man plans his course, but the LORD determines his steps. Proverbs 16:9
1. In our heart we make plans for the direction and vision we want to go. Just like Jonathan had a plan. Yet, Jonathan sought out God for direction.
2. When we make a plan and carefully prayed then act on the plan. God will let you know if your course is right. This is where building a relationship with Him comes into play.

3. A man's steps are directed by the LORD. How then can anyone understand his own way? Proverbs 20:24 (NAS)
a. We can’t understand our direction. We get stressed out when we do things on the fly.
b. God directs our steps in the way He desires for us to go. When we don’t go that way, God is like a parent and guides us into that action. Stress is induced when it doesn’t go OUR way. Remember it is His way and sometimes we have to have patience.

Finally, realize the following: "seeing that His divine power has granted to us everything pertaining to life and godliness, through the true knowledge of Him who called us by His own glory and excellence" 2 Peter 1:3 (NAS). God provides everything. It is up to us to determine how we live.

Make choices to live within your means so you don’t bring on financial stress. Remember, Eve who wanted it now by the deception of the serpent. Curve the appetite to do it now. Have a vision and a direction you would like to go and walk it. Allow God to be the beacon in the night of your life so you know where to carefully step. Sometimes, we are like Abraham and going somewhere we have never been before, but always trusting in God’s deliverance to the destination.

For nine years I have had three mortgages on my home, due to an unwilling and unforgiving ex-spouse who was constantly taking me into court over trivial things. I also kept refusing the signs God in what He was showing me. God wanted me to do something in my life of counseling others and helping others. I thought I don’t have the money, or the time to devote to something different. This year is amazing, because I sat down and wrote out a vision for my life in the next 5 years. I planned to go back to school and work on my Master’s degree in counseling. I paid for the first course and built my relationship with God. Sure, I had a relationship with Him, but it wasn’t the best it could have been. Today, receiving A’s in my courses. I have one mortgage with less payment. Have the funds to finish school. Why didn’t I learn this lesson nine years ago; stress which could have been avoided a long time ago?

You have five fingers. Sometimes we put a bow around our fingers to remind us of something to do.

Here are the five bows to remember how to reduce stress:
1. Plan, your goals and visions 5 years out. (once you complete do another five years and make
them realistically obtainable). (In his heart a man plans his course, but the LORD determines his steps. Proverbs 16:9)

2. Prepare, by looking for ways to get your vision and goals accomplished. Bring in support
people to help or to support you. (2 Timothy 2:21 If a man cleanses himself from the latter, he will be an instrument for noble purposes, made holy, useful to the Master and prepared to do any good work.)

3. Pray, constantly and build the trust and faith in God that He will delight in your ways or show you a better way to accomplish it and if not ask for directions. . (Philippians 4:6-7 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.)

4. Proactive, in looking for opportunities to present itself. Hard to look when you see the shadow on the ground, while the big picture is looking up in the sky. (Philippians 4:13 Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead)

5. Practice. What you believe in. Live your life like you are living your vision. (Philippians 4:8 Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.)

May you have a blessed day with less stress and don’t forget to pray to build that relationship with Him. What a blessed Savior!

Thank You! Happy Thanksgiving

In the winter of 1620 the Pilgrims that had settled in Plymouth were preparing to nestle in for a cold winter. In a short exchange of life and death, no muskets were fired, no natives were slain, nor had any arrows struck the new settlers. Only disease had been the killer the first winter. The Pilgrims lived on the edge of survival during the first winter after having 66 days of Wild Ocean’s rampage. Only 104 Pilgrims survived and made it to the new land including what seemed a miracle at sea. (This miracle being a new baby that was born, Oceanus.) "Being thus arrived in a good harbor and brought safe to land," wrote Governor William Bradford, "they fell upon their knees and blessed the God of heaven, who had brought them over the vast and furious ocean, and delivered them from all the perils and miseries thereof, again to set their feet on the firm and stable earth, their proper element."

After only a short four months of being in a new world, the diseases set in. Scurvy, pneumonia, and a virulent strain of tuberculosis had slain whole families. No sympathy was given as the storm plagued the lives of the Pilgrims. Out of only 104 pilgrims, there were only six or seven people able to tend the sick and comfort those that were dying. Six died in December, then eight in January, seventeen in February. Of March, Bradford wrote, "This month thirteen of our number die ... scarce fifty remain, the living scarce able to bury the dead." Of eighteen married women, only three remained. Baby Oceanus died. April was a month of a new birth for the new settlers. It was time to put in gardens, the Indians whom they feared came to their aid. The Native Americans taught the Pilgrims where to trap eels and how to plant corn. The Pilgrims, who had pilfered Indian corn the previous December, may not have been deserving, but this unexpected help made the difference for them between survival and starvation.

Settler Edward Winslow described it in this way: "We set the last spring some twenty acres of Indian corn, and sowed some six acres of barley and peas, and according to the manner of the Indians, we manured our ground with herrings or rather shads, which we have in great abundance, and take with great ease at our doors. Our corn did prove well, and God be praised, we had a good increase of Indian corn, and our barley indifferent good, but our peas not worth the gathering, for we feared they were too late sown, they came up very well, and blossomed, but the sun parched them in the blossom." Nevertheless, the harvest was good and the Pilgrims' food ration increased substantially. By fall, eleven houses lined the street of Plymouth Colony, seven private homes and four common buildings. The dying had stopped, and trade had begun with the Indians.

To celebrate, the Pilgrims invited the Native Americans to a harvest festival. It was a three-day feast of venison, roast duck, roast goose, clams and other shellfish, corn bread, -- all enjoyed with wine newly made from grapes that grew wild in the forest. It was a feast of thanksgiving, of thankfulness to God. Edward Winslow wrote to friends in December, "Although it be not always so plentiful as it was at this time with us, yet by the goodness of God, we are so far from want that we often wish you partakers of our plenty." The goodness of God was often on their minds. Though the Pilgrims had suffered great loss and hardship, they also were aware of God's great blessing: the produce of the land, peace with the natives, the joy of life, and homes snug for winter.

As He entered a village, ten leprous men who stood at a distance met Him; and they raised their voices, saying, ""Jesus, Master, have mercy on us!'' When He saw them, He said to them, "" Go and show yourselves to the priests.'' And as they were going, they were cleansed. Now one of them, when he saw that he had been healed, turned back, glorifying God with a loud voice, and he fell on his face at His feet, giving thanks to Him. And he was a Samaritan. Then Jesus answered and said, ""Were there not ten cleansed? But the nine where are they? "" Was no one found who returned to give glory to God, except this foreigner?'' And He said to him, ""Stand up and go; your faith has made you well.'' Luke 17:13-19

Amazing isn’t it? Does this story remind you of anything? Read that passage again. Do you notice anything? Only one person came back and thanked Christ. Notice what Jesus said, “Your faith has made you well”. What about the other nine? They were cleansed but notice what the passage says. He was a Samaritan. Samaritans were a mixed breed of people. The Jewish community considered them low lives and minorities. They were not a pure race and yet he came and thanked Christ. Not only was his physical dilemma healed but also his faith healed him emotionally. Even though I am a Christian, too often I find myself going about my daily praying asking God for THINGS.

On the other hand, I want people to sympathize with me, so when something is going wrong, -- and when doesn't it? -- I begin to complain. Not enough money…. My Dallas Cowboys are having a bad season again… The morals of our nation are terrible…My job is not satisfying to me. Normal complaining comes all too easily to my lips when things seem not to go MY WAY. If you will notice, we seem to complain when we focus on MY WAY. When things do go MY WAY, do I stop and thank others for the things they have done in my life? I didn’t used to until God humbled me in many different areas in my life. One day, I read Colossians 2:6-7. "So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness.” One phrase stuck in my mind like being stuck in the mud. “Overflowing with thankfulness." It began to repeat itself over and over in my mind. It’s almost like singing a tune that’s stuck in your head from hearing it earlier in the day. Overflowing in some translations brings the mental picture of the Thanksgiving spilling out an abundant harvest blessing. Jesus said, "Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks." What is in my heart? Complaining? Selfishness? Pride? -- or Thanksgiving?”

Thanksgiving should be the mark of a Christian. Thanksgiving is an outward giving of myself and it blesses God the Father while my complaining points only back to me and feeds my pride and dissatisfaction. Thanksgiving towards God and man fits the Great Commandment like a glove, to love God with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength, and to love my neighbor as myself. What better instrument than thankfulness to express love? Thanksgiving Day has always been a time of people and families coming together. The Pilgrims could have complained but they were thankful for the bountiful blessings God bestowed upon them. "Enter into his gates with thanksgiving, and into his courts with praise. Be thankful unto him, and bless his name. For the Lord is good; his mercy is everlasting; and his truth endures to all generations." (Psalm 100:4-5)

When you gather together for the holiday of Thanksgiving be thankful. Some do not have enough to eat. Some do not have houses. Some do not have families. The next time you take a bite of turkey, ask yourself this question: Am I being a turkey for not thanking others for what they have done for me? Life is too short! It will gobble your time away if you don’t take time to roost and to think about the blessings you have encountered.

God, Thank you for my wonderful friend, playmate, lover, and soul mate Tanya. Thank you for my wonderful children, Amber, Jon, Krista and Daniel. Thank you for my adopted mom and dad Jim and Wanda Crownover in Lubbock, Texas. Thank you for my grandmothers, Granny and Mama. Thank you for bringing me through tough times. Thank you for Jason Thornton who has helped me to see you and put you as Lord in savior of my life as I was baptized. What a life Father. It is a wonderful life. Much to be thankful. I can't wait to hug you! Amen.

So, be stuffed and overflowing with thanksgiving and be glad. Jesus died for you in order for you to live this Thanksgiving Day! Happy Thanksgiving!

A Veteran to Remember

Veteran's day preserves the historical date but also to help Americans focus on the importance of honoring those that have served our country through their patriotism and their willingness to sacrifice for America's Freedom. Every year the President of the United States urges all Americans to honor the commitment of our Veterans through appropriate public ceremonies. It is an honor after serving 8 years for the United States Army, to know America does remember those who have fought and served to protect the freedom of America. Those that have entered our life and have placed a footprint into our souls are also veterans.

Darkness overpowers the land like a blanket covering your face at night. It is totally dark and not one sound can be heard, except the heavy breathing of dying men. Nothing seems to break the hypnotic breathing that pierces your soul like the nails that have pierced the hands and feet. Sweat drops mingled in blood that falls to the ground like a slow dripping faucet. Darker clouds roll in as to cover the eyes of God from seeing the pain and misery of his son. If you were to listen intently, you can hear the rhythmic sounds blended together. Gasp and a slow outlet of airflows from the lips of a man accused of a crime and yet innocent and pure. Out of the darkness Then you hear a man's gasping voice, "Woman, behold, your son!'' John 19:26 Can you imagine the three words from a child in pain and agony as the child comes near to death?

Do we ever remember the great or small things done by others in our lives? People come and go in our lives leaving the footprints in our souls. Some we sometimes want to forget and then there are those that seem as angels we cannot forget. I wonder what went on in the mind of Simon. Combining the scriptures together the story is told: When they led Him away, and as they were coming out, they found a passer-by coming from the country of Cyrene named Simon (the father of Alexander and Rufus), whom they pressed into service and placed on him the cross to carry behind Jesus. And following Him was a large crowd of the people, and of women who were mourning and lamenting Him. (Matthew 27:32, Mark 15:21, Luke 23:26-27). No thoughts were recorded but if you had been there, would it not be a memory to always remember?

Memories are the "Kodak" moments of life. Whether it is Veteran's day when we remember our loved ones who have fought for our freedom, or those that have come into our lives who have affected us in a special way. We must never forget those footprints left behind in our souls. Those feelings are the footprints left in our souls as we remember their presence in our lives.

We must always remember the one true veteran who was wounded for our transgressions, the one veteran who has fought the battle for us and has won! Jesus is our war veteran. He took our sins to the cross. This is the memorial we are to remember for generations to come. The great news is that the War is over and He won and through him we are made more than conquerors. Remember those who have given up their lives so we can have freedom in America but most of all; let us never forget the price that Christ paid so that we too may have freedom through Him. He is the one and true veteran that is not placed in the grave but is alive and is preparing a place for us to live with Him.

Signs---- Where's your sign?

Do you see signs? Moreover, do you pay attention to signs?Some signs are obvious. They convey information or provide direction. For example: Stop, Yield, Wrong Way, One Way, Do Not Enter, Push, Pull, or Open Here. Every public building and retail store is filled with signs posting prices, directing us to the locations of certain offices, or even just saying the name of the building.Some information or direction signs use humor, which makes the message more memorable. A grocery store sign: "Snickers, 5 for $1.00 (limit 4)". At one of our local cemeteries there’s a big sign: "DRIVE CAREFULLY- WE CAN WAIT!" I have heard of a sign posted on a repair shop's door: "We can repair anything. (Please knock hard on the door - the bell doesn't work)"

Have you ever had someone not see something so obvious that you wanted to write out a sign stating the obvious, hand it to the person, and say “Here’s your sign, you seem to need it”? Sometimes there are signs that one might over look. For example: A person might comment about how others take him or her for granted, or that if that person were not around, others would find that they miss this person. These are casual signs that could indicate a suicidal intent. If such signs are overlooked, the person “holding” the signs may take their own life.

Sometimes, there are visible signs are even overlooked. For example, a child might act out in school. It could be a sign that there is something terrible happening at home. Maybe the parents fight often, maybe a parent is an alcoholic, and maybe one of a hundred other dysfunctions is occurring. Same is with God. He provides signs, so that we can have faith. Do you see the signs in all of these examples?

He replied, "When evening comes, you say, ‘It will be fair weather, for the sky is red,’ and in the morning, ‘Today it will be stormy, for the sky is red and overcast.’ You know how to interpret the appearance of the sky, but you cannot interpret the signs of the times. A wicked and adulterous generation looks for a miraculous sign, but none will be given it except the sign of Jonah." Jesus then left them and went away. (Matthew 16:2-4)

Sometimes when one prays one wants an answer through a sign. I have prayed asking God that if such and such a thing is what He desires, would He please show me a sign. Sometimes the sign is obvious and I have my answer. Sometimes there is not an answer. Stop. Wait. There is a sign. Sometimes I do not see the sign. Sometimes I did see it, but I did not recognize it as a sign that answered my prayer. Sometimes I refuse to see the signs that I know are there, because the sign means God’s answer to my prayer is no. Sometimes, there is no sign because God hasn’t answered me yet.Where are the signs? Sometimes God desires one to develop their faith without having a sign placed in their life. One is to grow in spirit and in trusting Him and to lean upon Him for direction, not always having to see a sign.

If one is truly looking for a sign, then here is the answer: “Whoever has my commands and obeys them, he is the one who loves Me. He who loves Me will be loved by my Father, and I too will love him and show Myself to him.” (John 14:21). One must be careful when looking for the signs lest Satan uses them for his purpose. 2 Corinthians 11: No wonder, for even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light. 15 Therefore it is not surprising if his servants also disguise themselves as servants of righteousness, whose end will be according to their deeds.

When one loses oneself in Christ and looks to Christ in everything, then the signs will appear, and your need for signs decreases. If one is truly in Christ, then one’s answers come through trust, through faith in Him. One then knows and trusts that things happen not in our time, but in God’s time. One stops and considers the signs around, the obvious ones and the silent ones, and trusts that God is in control. Have you read the signs in your life lately?

Serendipity------ Eureka!

Can you discover the depths of God? Can you discover the limits of the Almighty? Job 11:7 Discover can be serendipity. SERENDIPITY (from The American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language, 3rd Edition) means: The faculty of making fortunate discoveries by accident. We are indebted to the English author Horace Walpole for coining the word serendipity. In one of his 3,000 or more letters, and specifically in a letter of January 28, 1754, Walpole says, "This discovery, indeed, is almost of that kind which I call Serendipity, a very expressive word."

Walpole formed the word on an old name for Sri Lanka, Serendip. He explained the name was part of a fairy tale title, called The Three Princes of Serendip. In the story the princes traveled, always making discoveries, by accidents and sagacity, of things, which they were not in search of from the beginning. One of the most remarkable instances of this accidental sagacity was of my Lard Shaftsbury, who happening to dine at Lord Chancellor Claredon's, found out the marriage of the Duke of York and Mrs. Hyde, by the respect with which her mother treated her at the table."

Have you noticed in your life the things taking place happen for a specific reason? Is it possible the attack on America is for serendipity to take place? Meaning for us to discover God and to pray to Him and look to Him for help. Many people were focused on material things. Taking life for granted. Some walked out of the house for the last time and didn’t tell someone they loved them or how much they mean to them in their life.

How often do we go through life walking aimlessly in our little world and don’t notice the beauty that surrounds us until something happens to awaken us. We need to be like Columbus in the effect of becoming courageous people and allowing the effects of serendipity to take place. When is the last time you have discovered God being in your life? Have you sat still for a moment or are you to busy to ignore the issues in your life? Why turn to the alcohol? Why turn to drugs? Why turn to work and allow everyday atrocities to blind the discovery of peace. It’s time to focus on the signs around us. It’s time to be still. "Be still, and know that I am God! I am exalted among the nations, I am exalted in the earth." Psalms 46:10.

Let us begin to discover the blessing in Christ. When one loses oneself in Christ and looks to Christ in everything, then the signs will appear, and your need for signs decreases. If one is truly in Christ, then one’s answers come through trust, through faith in Him. One then knows and trusts that things happen not in our time, but in God’s time.

One stops and considers the signs around, the obvious ones and the silent ones, and trusts that God is in control. Then Jesus said to His disciples, "If anyone wishes to come after Me, he must deny himself, and take up his cross and follow Me. "For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it; but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it. "For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what will a man give in exchange for his soul? "For the Son of Man is going to come in the glory of His Father with His angels, and will then repay every man according to his deeds. "Truly I say to you, there are some of those who are standing here who will not taste death until they see the Son of Man coming in His kingdom." Matthew 16:24-28

Let’s discover the love of God (We have come to know and have believed the love, which God has for us. God is love, and the one who abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him. 1 John 4:16) and let’s begin a life of peace and from the serendipitous life with God, he will never let you down. See how great a love the Father has bestowed on us, that we would be called children of God; and {such} we are. For this reason the world does not know us, because it did not know Him. 1 John 3:1

It is amazing. How do you build your faith? You have to keep discovering the paths of God. He will show you what he desires. You do not need a light to find your path for his word is His light for our path.

In the water.......

What have I learned in this past week: amazing, strengthening relationship with my Father? My Rock! My Fortress! My Salvation! My Creator! It is easy for us to develop relationships with others. What about when things go wrong? We can go to Worship and praise and pray to God with our lips. How does our heart fair when we walk out the doors of the building?

The following was taken from Matthew 14: What a day Jesus and His disciples had. John the Baptist was murdered. Jesus wanted to withdraw and it is normal for anyone who has lost family. Jesus started to withdraw until the crowds gathered around Him. I wondered what His thoughts were when He wanted to withdraw and possibly say a prayer. Yet, His compassion was on healing those who were sick.

Evening was drawing close and they were in a remote place. The disciples wanted the crowds to disperse, to get something to eat and Jesus said no. “Don’t send them away but you can feed them” He said. They replied all we have is five loaves of bread and two fish. Jesus took them and gave thanks and broke the bread to give to the people. This fed over 5,000 people.

While He was dismissing the crowds, Jesus sent his disciples in a boat to go to the other side. When Jesus was alone, He went onto the mountain side to pray. It would be nice to know the thoughts of His prayer. It wasn’t until the fourth watch, which is before dawn breaks that He began to walk on the water towards the disciples.

I want to take a break and bring all this into perspective. The disciples were in panic mode of excitement with the death of John. They ran to the savior to report all which was going on. Jesus wanted to withdraw. I don’t blame Him. If I loose a family member, I want to withdraw and reflect. Yet, God provides ways of not withdrawing, but reaching out to others who are in need. Sometimes, what we want is not necessarily in the game plan. Through helping others our pains tend to heal themselves. We have to take a step back out of the situation and dwell on something else.

Notice the comment that Jesus expressed to the disciples, “You feed them”. Jesus equips us with more than you can imagine. You just can’t allow stress to get in the way of what you have been blessed. The little can accomplish much. The little food did great things. The disciples gave what they had and Jesus made it work with what they had. Sometimes we begin to doubt when we only have the little and we see the stress of much to accomplish.

Finally, Jesus was left alone to pray. We have to realize, when we give, we have to replenish our souls. Often times we allow the stress to be the boss and dictate how to live. We may begin to focus on others and often forget to nourish ourselves. Jesus sent the crowds’ away and spent time in building the relationship with His Father.

Paul Harvey would say in his daily radio broadcast, “Now, the rest of the story.” Jesus came walking on the water and appeared to the disciples. You would think they would recognize the voice of Jesus. Yet, they were afraid because they thought it was a ghost. Peter being bold said, “Lord, if it is you command me to come to meet you on the water.” “Come.” Peter went and met Him, but the wind scared Peter and he began to sink. Jesus helped him up out of the water.

How does all this come to play with what I have learned this week? I must not react to situations which will take my focus off my relationship. Keep things into perspective. Focus on others and continue to help those in need. My Father is in control. To take what I have been blessed with and not to stress. My Father will take the little things and to His glory will multiply them to benefit others. If I profess faith, then I must be willing act on faith and be convicted in knowing He will allow it. I can’t allow outside forces take my focus off the relationship with my Father.

I must include others when my heart is in Gethsemane. When others pray there is a mustard strength of faith and an overwhelming peace. Be humble when problems exist and allow your Christian siblings to pray and to console you. I must build my faith. Activate my faith. Work in my faith. Proclaim my faith. Jesus will provide the rest and everything works out to the best.

No matter how bad the odds stack up against you. God does not forget who His children are. I’ve been through a lot but this time it has strengthened my faith in knowing, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” Just keep the focus on Him. Don’t worry about the wind of troubles which seem to smell of terror. It is the rain of blessing which smell like He is coming. It's all water under the bridge. Think about it!

Food for thought: .. Days like Noah...

Are you ready? Have you thought about why there is a global economy crisis? I know no one can predict tragedies or predict the coming day that Christ will return. However, do you remember the days of Noah?

Genesis 6:3 Then the LORD said, "My Spirit will not contend with man forever, for he is mortal; his days will be a hundred and twenty years. 5 The LORD saw how great man's wickedness on the earth had become, and that every inclination of the thoughts of his heart was only evil all the time. 6 The LORD was grieved that he had made man on the earth, and his heart was filled with pain. 7 So the LORD said, "I will wipe mankind, whom I have created, from the face of the earth—men and animals, and creatures that move along the ground, and birds of the air—for I am grieved that I have made them." 8 But Noah found favor in the eyes of the LORD. 11 Now the earth was corrupt in God's sight and was full of violence. 12 God saw how corrupt the earth had become, for all the people on earth had corrupted their ways. 13 So God said to Noah, "I am going to put an end to all people, for the earth is filled with violence because of them. I am surely going to destroy both them and the earth.

The days of Noah, men were corrupt in God’s eyes, and the earth was filled with violence. What does Noah have to do with today? Well Jesus stated, “Matthew 24:36 “However, no one knows the day or hour when these things will happen, not even the angels in heaven or the Son himself. Only the Father knows. 37 “When the Son of Man returns, it will be like it was in Noah’s day. 38 In those days before the flood, the people were enjoying banquets and parties and weddings right up to the time Noah entered his boat. 39 People didn’t realize what was going to happen until the flood came and swept them all away. That is the way it will be when the Son of Man comes.

Interesting, statement that the Son of Man will return it will be like it was in the days of Noah. Well, how do we know if we are in the days of Noah? Here is a thought: Ever looked at the statistics of people living to the age of 120? On the High end and by the year 2050 they are estimating 4,218,000 people will be over the age of 100 (See the chart). Interesting we are living longer. Well, thanks to medical science, that it does help to improve our health and our age.
What about the violence?

The United States Crime Index Rates Per 100,000 Inhabitants went from 1,887.2 in 1960 to 5,897.8 in 1991. By 1991 the crime rate was 313% the 1960 crime rate. In 1996 your risk of being a victim of a crime in the United States was 5.079%, and of a violent crime 0.634%. In 1960 these rates were 1.89% of being a victim of a crime and 0.161% of becoming victim of a violent crime. Our Index of Crime Statistics cover the period from 1960 to 2000. They cover the total reported crime, and compare population to the total crime reported by Index. Categories include Property, Murder, Forcible Rape, Robbery, Aggravated assault, Burglary, Larceny-theft, and Vehicle theft.
United States: Uniform Crime Report -- State Statistics from 1960 – 2007
http://www.disastercenter.com/crime/

It is interesting that our crime rate has risen. Are you seeing the big picture? Jesus said there will be signs. What about natural disasters as signs?
"Number of natural disasters (10 or more people killed, 100 people affected, a state of emergency declared or a call for international assistance made)

1900-09: 73

1910-19: 107

1920-29: 99

1930-39: 112

1940-49: 176

1950-59: 294

1960-69: 588

1970-79: 964

1980-89: 1900

1990-99: 2720

2000-09: 4650"

/The Economist - The World in 2007 - A year of fear - Leo Abruzzese/

Now see the big picture? More living closer to the age of 120, crime rates are up, and natural disasters are doubled in the last decade. 2 Timothy 3, God condemns those who are "lovers of themselves"—all involved in "self." He condemns those who focus their lives on money and wealth—"lovers of money” and those who are "lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God." Now see why we have global economic crises?

This is just a food for thought that I have had for several months. What would you do if you had one hour left to live?

Parenting Part two--- Being a father

It is interesting some of the classes I am taking for counseling in family marriage. Last month I held a men’s seminar and spoke about men and David’s mid-life crises. Men need to learn how to be fathers and husbands. Father’s to step up in taking care of their children and husbands to their wives in a manner worthy to God’s calling.

If a father is constant and maintains his faith 93% of the families will follow the father. However, with no father only 43% of women and children will attend, if the mother is faithful. Amazing if a father shows love towards his children, they will follow. A man needs to build his relationship with the Heavenly Father and set good examples for their children.
Several years ago I was working for a company and drove a truck. On the job I had accidently backed up into a residential mailbox. Boy was I embarrassed. I spoke with the lady and gave her my cell phone number and reassured her I would be back out on Saturday and will personally replace her mailbox. She gladly accepted.

I drove to Lowes and bought the better mailbox than what she had before. I also bought the tools and other pieces of equipment I would need to make the mailbox look good. That Saturday morning I dropped daughter off at a friend’s house and my son and I drove to where I broke the mailbox.

He looked at me and asked where we were going and I explained to him what I was going to do. He asked why I would want to do that. I said because when we make mistakes we need to own up to them and take responsibility. If we have broken something we need to replace it as equal as or better than what that person had and to ask for forgiveness. We got there and he helped me to replace the mailbox. When the homeowner got home and called me she was more than happy with the results.

My son and I bonded and learned how to stand up and make things right. There are several key things in which I think fathers need to express and to teach their children.
They are:
1. Mentor. A father can be a parent but to be a mentor is a step farther. It is okay to set rules and make sure your kids follow the right things. To be a mentor is being a role model that does what they explain. This means to make sure your children watch you living consistently what you teach. Not to be saying and doing something different from what you explain. Mentoring means not listening to music which is not appropriate and then ensuring your children are doing the same. They won’t follow someone who does one thing and doesn’t follow their own advice. That is why I enjoy Christian music. They can’t refute what I listen too. I find teaching moments when I can and help them understand their environment around them.

2. Praying. Your kids need to hear you lead prayers. Not just lead them, but to pray with them. When they have a rough day at school, pray with them and pray about a situation at work, but also you need to be discrete in your prayers. Remember, children are children, and don’t need adult information. Fathers need to be praying with the mothers, so that the children will learn how to communicate effectively with others, as well as the Heavenly Father.

3. Service. Children need to see you give. Not toys or something for them or for your family. Allow your children to see you serving others, so our children understand it’s not about them, but what we do for others is important. Two commands Jesus gave and the commands we are to carry out is to love others first. It is important to reach out into our communities. Help our neighbors. My son enjoys helping me do the lawn and then helping our next door neighbor with his lawn.

4. Reading. Teach your children to spend some alone time in peace and quite. Share with them and teach them the simple stories in the bible. Daniel and the Lions den is a good example. Teach them no matter if they are in trouble, that God will see them through it as long as we have faith in trust. Show them how to read and understand the message about forgiving, serving and loving one another. Have them read stories which inspire the imagination like the Chronicles of Narnia.

5. Family time. We have once a week family time. We call together a family meeting and we discuss how our families have been in the past week. Talk about school and how things are going. Learning about their friends and discussing problems which may happen in school or within our own family. We allow them to plan events or trips like going to the zoo. Things they would like to eat this week and children love to feel important and inviting them into your world, opens a door of communication. Play Nintendo or board games with them. Go on a family camping trip or to the zoo.

6. Cry. Joy. Don’t be afraid to shed a tear. Fireproof was a tear jerking movie. My wife knows I am sensitive. Watching a movie with the kids they can see my sensitive side and the laughter when we watch Ms Doubtfire. Don’t be afraid as a father to share your emotions. Don’t ever be angry in a form which is not conducive to biblical teaching. Laugh when they make funny jokes.

7. Truth. Always be truthful with your kids. If they ask, are you Santa Clause, well don’t lie about it. Be honest and just say, yes. Ask them in shock, how did you know and how bright you are for finding me out. When we lie we teach our children to lie. Always be truthful and be on their level.

8. Going to Worship. Going to worship is critical for children. They need to see a father worshiping the creator. They need to understand Jesus and what He has done for all mankind. However, when leaving worship don’t let yourself be in a hypocritical state. If you praise God on Sunday, don’t be on the highway cussing the man out that cut you off. Allow them to see you’re trying to give praise and thanks for all that God has done and blessed you in the family.

9. Relationships. Teach your children on how to build loving and lasting relationships. If you don’t treat your wife in such a way your prayers are hindered. Father’s must see the loving touch and careful words he uses with his spouse. Teach your children on appropriate ways to discuss and handle arguments or disagreements in a healthy manner. Get to know your children. Learn what they like and dislike. Do you know their favorite colors, movies or places they enjoy eating out? Teach them your relationships when you go to the store. Be friendly to the cashier. How you speak to someone on the phone. How you deal with difficult people. Teach them skills on how to work through difficult relationships.

10. Love. Love is the hardest to achieve. Also show your children you love them. Not buying them things but showing you love them. Writing love notes or emails, and let them know before they go to bed and when they start out their day. You never know when it is your last day on earth will be. It’s important to touch your children. Hug them. Tuck them in at night. Love is being tough, but also showing mercy. When you show love they will love you back even when they don’t express it back. Always forgive them and never turn your back on them no matter what they have done.

Be a father. Read how Jesus related to His Father and bear fruit in the relationships you have with your children. They are the fruit of your loins. Treat them with respect. Get to their level and talk eye to eye. They will respect you if you give them a chance to express your love. I still enjoy those homemade cards. The Father loves us now be uplifted and uplift your children. Nothing better in knowing our Father will bless us in our families if we do what is right.

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Parenting-- Instructions?

Are you able to look at a manual which has words and pictures, showing you how to be putting something together? Try being up at 3am and putting a bicycle together, so that your child will be surprised at the new gift Santa left under the tree. I love giving surprises to my kids, whether it is during Christmas or during the week. Sometimes, I wonder where the manual went on being a parent.

I’m attending Liberty University finishing my Master’s degree in counseling. I have done five years of pastoral counseling and I want to help others who are hurting and searching for truth. Ten years ago, I began looking and searching for the truth. I thought the truth could be found in books, or what the preacher had to say. No, Jesus said the only truth is through Him. Now, that I am a parent, I have learned there are no parenting instructions, but there are five things which God has taught me.

There are parenting instructions which were given by God and Jesus. His message was lived through His Son. My eyes have been opened and a philosophy of being a parent through the eyes of my creator has taught me these five things:

1. God loves when I interact with Him. I love my children deeply. I enjoy interacting in their school activities, programs, sports, going to church and no matter what it is they want to talk about, I am willing to listen. Jesus took time out to talk to the Father because He knew he would listen. I love to hear how my children’s day is going. When we go to the movies or watch a movie we talk about it. What did you learn? What if you were that person, how would you handle it? What did you like the most about that movie?

I wondered how God felt when He heard Jesus praying in the garden. The pain and the hurt Jesus was fixing to bear. The one thing which hurts me the most is when my children don’t want to talk when something is bothering them. I give them space and give them the free will choice to come and talk. I love talking and interacting with my children. Whether it is breakfast on weekends, or at the dinner table through the week, it thrills me when I can hear the creativity and thoughts which run through their minds.


2. God loves being in a relationship. The greatest events in my life are when my children were born. Holding my daughter in my arms. Holding my son in my arms. Relationships are important with God and what He has taught me is how to have a relationship with my children. I enjoyed doing a father and son campout. Being able to go one on one and learning the things he likes to do. We both are learning to shoot bows. He’s still a better shot than I am. My daughter enjoys shopping and eating out. I enjoy teaching her how men need to treat her. Opening the doors. Communicating. Learning about each other and sometimes it’s a challenge. My other two I enjoy being able to play games and interacting with them. Wow. Four kids. Yep. I love them all. Even though they still can beat me when we play Nintendo. My special blended family has taught me how God accepts everyone and the love He shares.

3. God never turns His back. One thing I have learned about being a parent is never turning my back on my children. Sure it hurts, when they do wrong, but they have to learn things on their own. My heart breaks when I explain to them the things we do not approve of. NEVER, will I stop loving them no matter how much they hurt me or don’t want to be around. They always come back. Why? Because love overlooks all kinds of wrong doings. They are my flesh and blood, but most of all they are my children.

4. God has taught me not to worry. Well, I must confess, I am still learning on that lesson. I know it is frustrating worrying about your children. I know I am a good father. I worry about if they will make good decisions and no matter what, I will be there for them. I have to let go and let God take over and not worry so much. I wonder if that’s another grey hair in my head.

5. Finally, LOVE. Love. I can’t say this enough. 1 Corinthians 13 is one of my favorite passages. Even John 3:16 is a favorite passage. Love covers wrong doings. Love doesn’t seek its own. Being a parent there are many sacrifices one has to make. I use to be a general manager of retail and restaurants but money was great but not for my family. I sacrificed money for my family. We live within our means. We spend time in playing games, reading together, doing things as a family and most of all eating at the table. Love learns to communicate in family discussions.

Therefore, for someone to say there are no parenting instructions, these are the five I have learned through the instructions of God’s love. God gave us His son, so that we can have a relationship with Him. I love my children and if need be, give my life up for them. I love you! Remember who you are.

Spend time with your kids, no matter what they feel, say, or do and NEVER turn your back on them. Receive them home and throw a party for we once were prodigal children. Thank you, Father for loving me, and sacrificing your son on the cross. There you have it, short and simple, five small instructions on parenting. I love my four children because my Father first loved me. Thanks for the great lessons!

Jesus Wept

I remember being in college and a group of us went spelunking. Laying out in the open and gazing into space. Wow! Stars to numerous to count. I wondered how Abraham felt when he looked into the heavens and was told to count the stars. In space it is an amazing showcase of colors being displayed. Stars, which appear upon earth as falling, are they merely stars or comets shooting across the heavens. Great medical discoveries have been made in outer space, but what impact does space have on the human body?

In space, astronauts cannot cry because tears cannot flow without gravity. Tears contain chemicals and hormones produced by your body. When you become upset, the mind overreacts and works overtime by producing chemicals and hormones. Crying helps eliminate the hormones that we don't need in our system. As your tears flow, the hormones disappear from our body. Tears help sooth our minds by withdrawing the extra hormones. This is why many people feel calmer or more refreshed after crying. As an infant you cried and it was your way of communicating. Then, as you grew into a child, you learned to speak instead of crying. When you were hungry, you could communicate that you were hungry and don't have to cry. At this point, crying begins when one becomes emotionally upset or tears of joy. You were given the natural ability to feel.

Sometimes women cry and they don't know why they are crying at times, because the hormonal level in women is very high and there has to be some type of release. What has happened between the times we were children to being an adult? As adults, some do not know how to handle hurt or how to let the tears fall. When you were a child and you felt the hurt of something, you began to cry. There is no time limit on crying and when you finished, your hurt disappeared. Why? It disappeared because you let go of the hurt through crying. You felt all your feelings and emotions. This is the natural process of feeling and letting go of your hurt.

Why do we forget this process, as we get older? When we were young we were been taught by our parents to fight the process. For example, some parents have said that boys don't cry or it's not proper for girls to cry." What about, "Men don't cry." This process teaches us to avoid our hurts. It hinders the healing process by stuffing our feelings inside and not letting them out. No matter how hard you try to hold back those tears, they will always come out. Fighting will only delay the healing process. Try not to avoid your hurt. You can't get away from it. You will continue to experience these feelings whether you want to go through them or not. Stuffing your feelings and holding them inside can sometimes cause illnesses such as stress, anxiety and even the extremes of breakdowns or coping disorders. It is your choice to heal or to be sick.

"Jesus wept." John 11:35 The shortest verse in the bible and yet so explosive in imagery! The Son of God crying can be seen as God's love and compassion etched into the scriptures to share the emotional compassion He shares with man. Jesus weeps at the tomb of Lazarus, his friend, the one he loves. How can one find such passion? He loved Lazarus and His heart of compassion allowed Him to cry, even though Jesus knew He could raise Him from the dead. How is it possible our crying can release the hurt?

By releasing your hurt, you have to be willing to experience the hurt, and by reassuring yourself it is okay to feel this way, you keep on crying. Crying is releasing your hurt. If you resist feeling hurt, then feelings and thoughts of worthlessness begin to take over and soon you feel like a failure or that you're not good enough to be loved. Then it becomes destructive. During the days of Jesus' life on earth, he offered up prayers and petitions with loud cries and tears to the one who could save him from death, and he was heard because of his reverent submission. Hebrews 5:7 Jesus cried for us. He still cries for you to listen to His voice and to release your pain and hurt to him. "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." Matthew 11:28-30

When you let your tears flow you begin to heal your hurt and from healing, your life will begin to change. From this change you release the fear and upset. You then can fill your life with love. You can restore your life through Christ by allowing Him to create the life of peace. We have to be willing to release the feelings of fear and begin to trust. This unwillingness to let go destroys relationships with others as you begin stuffing your hurt deep inside. Life becomes more unbearable because you're also fighting yourself from releasing your pain. When you find peace in Christ, love begins to develop because God is love. When love exists in your life, take notice of how happy and free you feel. There are no more burdens. You become confident and effective in allowing Christ to control your life. This is the experience of love. This is what we want in our relationships and in our lives.

It is evident in Psalms; David stuffed his feelings and chose not to deal with them. Examine the following passage: When I kept silent, my bones wasted away through my groaning all day long. For day and night your hand was heavy upon me; my strength was sapped as in the heat of summer. Psalms 32:3,4 To create a life that works, you need to create action of crying and developing love and not resisting your tears to come to your eyes. David realized the power in confessing and releasing his pain. Examine the following passage: Then I acknowledged my sin to you and did not cover up my iniquity. I said, "I will confess my transgressions to the LORD"-- and you forgave the guilt of my sin. Selah Psalms 32:5

If you feel so overwhelmed its time to ask God what David asked: Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Psalms 51:10 Now is the time for you to rid your feelings and cry out. Once you are able to empty your bucket of feelings then God will fill your bucket with love. Because your love is better than life, my lips will glorify you. Psalms 63:3 Don't worry about failing. Let God support you. When I said, "My foot is slipping," your love, O LORD, supported me. Psalm 94:18 The next time you don't feel like crying, think about how Christ cried in the garden for you. Then think about how He died on the cross for you and cried out in a loud voice. It's time to let go and let God in. You cry. God will heal and can raise your heart from the dead to live again.