Slow down, lest we forget our Purpose

It can be a busy day; often times there are more busy days than the lack of them.  The busyness twirls the mind around like a fair ride that can leave you dizzy and wondering why you got on the ride in the first place. Life can be like that ride and depending on what you make of it will determine if you desire to enjoy the fun or decide to never to get on the scary ride again.

Or you leave one room for another room with a set purpose in mind. Once you get to your destination, there you become side-tracked and forget your purpose for going there in the first place. You become frustrated because you knew you had to do something, but now cannot quite put the finger on it. No matter how many reminders you might have, no matter how many times you try to remember, it eludes you like a wild animal breaking free from your grip.

Our attitudes may define who we are if we are not careful. It is easy to adapt and to relax and become the situation. Almost like a frog in a cold kettle set over a fire that slowly becomes accustomed to the heating water, until it is boiled. How often do we forget our purpose in life? How often do we forget our role in our marriage? How often do we forget who we are as an individual? Many have said that they ‘lost their identity’ and that they are now ‘finding themselves.’

When we lose sight of our main focus we tend to forget. We forget who we are. We lose that identify and purpose for our life. Oftentimes it is like chasing the wind as it carries a piece of paper, our life.  That paper is a written note proclaiming who we are and where we are to go with an intent purpose in mind.

For some people, they seek definition of who they are through their friends. They seek others for approval of their relationships.  They seek others for happiness. They seek their life in this or in that, yet end up empty each and every time. They feel if they tried harder, focused harder, the answer they sought would be found.

 One passage in the bible has always intrigued me. Jesus knew the hearts of men. Just like the night of his betrayal and before it even happened, Jesus explained to Peter that he would deny Him three times and as a reminder of what He told Peter, a rooster would crow after the third denial. This was so that Peter would believe and remind him of what his heart did. Yet, that is not the passage I had in mind.

The passage begins in John 5.  John writes about a man who came to the healing pool daily. He had been an invalid for thirty-eight years. He came to the pool to be healed because angels would come down and stir the water and who entered the pool first would be healed. Jesus knows the hearts of men, but today was different than any other day. Jesus approached the man and He asked the man, “Do you want to be healed?” Why? If I have a purpose of going somewhere then I know why I am there. The man wanted to be healed. Jesus knew it. Why did Jesus notice the man with this question and not heal him like he did countless others?

Jesus wanted to awaken the purpose. We forget who we are and what we are to become when we become busy in our life, or when we tell our self lies, listen to others. While our intent of our purpose is the desire to be healed, we forgot what to do. Misplaced keys, misplaced cell phone because we became intense on the side attractions and so busy we forget to create a memory of where we put our item so that we can retrieve it later.  Have you forgotten the purpose of why you came to Christ and have forgotten how to live? Maybe religion has suffocated you and snatched the true freedom you were called to be in. Maybe it was a marriage that suffocated you in not reaching your full potential. It might even be selfish thoughts, which have prevented you from obtaining your full potential. Sometimes it can be the distraction or the self-defeat thoughts we tell ourselves that we are never good enough. I will never reach my goal, so what is the use. The invalid man in John 5 told Jesus that he couldn’t roll into the pool and that no one would ever help him, and thus, that he would never be healed. He lost sight of his purpose.

What is your purpose in life? Do you want to be healed? Find that inner voice deep and focus on Christ that will give you the power and the energy to walk and to be healed. The question to ask is, “Are you willing to take the first step that might seem so unnatural at first?” We have to rid ourselves of the past in order to walk the past. To rid the past is through forgiveness of us and others. To be healed is to understand that the power is not in the water. The power is in our determination to focus on Christ and doing what He commands us to do. The next time you feel misplaced, look up and pray and stay in constant communication with Him. He is reminding us every day our intentions and purpose of walking with Him. Others may say too fast to soon, not to do this, not to do that, but is it the will on man’s voice or the will of the Father that knows best? Be still and focus on Him and listen to his voice and you will find that purpose He has placed into your heart.

Will you be courageous enough to take the first step and walk?

The next time life deals you with a blow and you feel paralyzed, do not forget your intent and purpose of where you are going. When we walk with Him, he will guide us into the paths of righteousness. Are you willing to have the faith that Forges Attitude In Trusting Him?

Watered Coffee?

Have you ever had a thought about water? I can remember my school years and a particular class that challenged most students. Biology class. Exploratory surgery on a frog and the next year was a pig; Biology class was interesting, especially for boys, at the age they are ready to explore. As long as you had a teacher that kept things interesting, biology wouldn’t be so bad. However, having a teacher with a monotonous voice doesn’t help make anything interesting. In Biology class, we had to memorize the basic elements model. What a burdensome task! Now I have some idea about the weight donkeys have to carry when I ride them. I thought, I would never be able to memorize the elements table. However, the easiest and most memorable ones were for water (H2O). H2O is Hydrogen and 2 parts Oxygen.

Water is in everything. This brings up an interesting fact about water. Steam and ice are forms of water with all three having the basic element of H20. Steam, ice and water have different characteristics. Water is a liquid and is present in everything. Water heated up becomes something powerful, which is steam. Steam is like a ghost appearance. Ice is the solid form of water. All three have different characteristics, but all exist as one element of H2O. I have a lot of questions on how God work in our lives. The only way to explain it is in this way:H2O is the basic element of water. The Godhead can be equated to H20, which means it is in everything and it is the basic element. God can be an element of water, which means He is present everywhere. God also took on a solid form. Jesus can be an element of ice, which means He took on the solid form of the Godhead (H2O). The Spirit can be an element of steams, which means He is present like God everywhere but is a Spirit. Like steam looks like a Ghost. God is everywhere and is the element of Life. Without water you can not exist. Jesus is the solid form. When you add Him to your life He cools off the condemnation. The Spirit is present and is like steam that irons out the wrinkles in our lives. Everyone has different characteristics. Some are like carrots. You can peel way the layers, but underneath they are still hard, and if you try to bend them, they break in half. Sometimes they are the “root” of problems. Some are like eggs, which are very fragile and difficult in handling. Some are like coffee beans. They can be hard on the outside, but have a sweet fragrance about them. When life throws punches, how will you react? Like a carrot, hard but add them into the water they can become soft, but steamed they can bend. Add them on ice and they are preserved. Are you like an egg, fragile with a thin outer shell and when tossed you break? Yet, when life’s punches come like boiling water, you become hard on the inside and refuse to mold. You frantically fall to pieces but trying to hold it all together. However, when you add God to the coffee bean, what happens? It yields, but together with God you become a sweet aroma. I believe Paul wrote it in this way, “For we are to God the aroma of Christ among those who are being saved and those who are perishing (2 Cor. 2:15).” Yet, O LORD, you are our Father.

We are the clay, you are the potter; we are all the work of your hand. Isaiah 64:8 When trouble start to brew, be like the coffee bean and remember the water, the ice and the steam all three is what makes the aroma in your life sweet and pleasant to those around you. "When troubles arise, know it’s the Lord who has you in His hands working out those things which for it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his good purpose" Phil 2:13. If you need help email me as a life coach, I can help direct you in a peace that passes all understanding. When you drink your cup of coffee remember it has to have water and without it you’re just a bean. Why not yield your life to God to be much more than what you can be? Never be complacent for improving.